Well....i dedicate this thought of mine to my family & likes of my family ...............
THE word "middle" has many advantages & disadvantages too ..it depends on the word which comes after the "middle" & certainly when it comes before "class family" then awkward situations arise.
On basis of resources we divide the families & say like upper,middle & lower class family..but i think we mustn't divide it like this & with resources we must take "desires " also into account because desires & resources are intertwined with each other & because of this only, all kinds of suffering to "the middle class family".
Let me explain it ......just see if an upper class family has a high aspirations then it has resources also to fulfill it & the lower one -they don't have any aspirations because they don't have the resources.But awkward situation arise when you have high aspirations & limited resource & this is what actually happens with the middle class family.While desiring they forget about the resource & when they try to achieve then this limited resource creates problems....In other words it can be said that when the desires are of upper class & resources are slightly above the lower class then it makes a perfect middle class.
BUT again the happy family is the middle class family until the desires are materialistic....somehow they manage to get rid of their desires of living a lavish life but as far as i have seen or experienced it really becomes painful when a middle class father wants a good higher studies for his worthy son & he can't afford it due to lack of resources ....at this point of time all the happiness is gone & then he cries over his status of being a middle class man... then it seems like a stigma- "the middle class".....that is the real agony .
Finally.....what??? are you happy or not if you belong to a middle class family ???
3 comments:
i agreed that the middle class faces many troubles
it may be easier for a rich person to get everything in his life but the real fun in life is to get something u deserve ,& something for which u have to fight
& we middle class ppl have to fight for just everything
so feel blessed if u belongs to middle class
me 2 agree wid ur thoughts,its true that we the middle class people have to go through many problems but u know something.....this makes us more strong n determined for something which takes us high.we set our goals n try to achieve it......so directly or indirectly we go 4 something good.
this is jst one aspect....we have many more like this so dnt get depressed n enjoy every moment n go ahead if u belong to middle class
i have something different to say..
who the hell given somebody rights calling ppl and categorizing ppl into classes..... one feels that he/she belongs to upper class just bcoz they have few extra bugs in their pocket, bcoz they have luxury... why we feels that ppl sleeping on footpaths are hate materials...
the only thing that makes u upper, middle and poor class, is ur own mentality...
lets take an example; there are 100s of c0ompanies operating on same domain... say INSURANCE.
every company claims that they r number one... how can everyone be on number one? r they right?
yes they r... one in terms of revenue, one in terms of capital, one in terms of market capital, one in terms of consumer... so more than one can be on top at the same time...
same happens with so called family classes... upper class is poor in terms of social and personal approach.. middle class are poor in terms of luxury.. and poor are in terms of money...
everything has their own pros and cons... u cant buy peace and pleasure through money..
the only thing that can make you apart from all these so called classes is your own mentality...
ashu
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